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Hen party and stag do invitation wording to copy

Hen party, stag do and bachelorette invitation wording to copy: weekend away, night out and surprise, plus the details guests need and collecting replies.

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Whether you call it a hen do, stag weekend or bachelorette, the invitation has to build excitement and cover the awkward bits: dates, costs, and who is in. Here are ten texts to start from.

Hen party and bachelorette

Night out[Name] is saying goodbye to single life and we’re celebrating! Hen night on [date], meeting at [place] at [time]. Dress code: [theme].
Weekend awayPack your bags: [Name]’s hen weekend is [date] in [place]. Estimated cost £[amount] per person. Please reply by [date] to secure your room.
Spa dayA day of pampering for the bride-to-be! Spa on [date] at [place], then dinner. Let me know by [date] if you’re joining.
SurpriseShh, it’s a secret! We’re planning a surprise hen for [Name] on [date]. Please keep your lips sealed and reply to me directly.

Stag do

WeekendThe groom-to-be, [Name], is facing the end of freedom, so we’re sending him off in style. Stag weekend on [date] in [place]. Reply by [date] with a £[deposit] deposit.
Day out[Name] is getting married and needs a proper send-off. Stag do on [date]: golf in the morning, pub in the afternoon, dinner after. Are you in?
AdventureGo-karts, paintballing, a barbecue. Stag do for [Name] on [date] at [place]. Bring trainers and a sense of humour.
MixedEveryone’s welcome! [Name] and [Name] are having a joint pre-wedding party on [date] at [place].

Organising it all

With an online invitation, each person taps to say yes or no, and you see who is in at a glance. Creating, previewing and sending by link are free up to 7 visible replies. After that, pay once: Essential €14.90 (20 replies), Complete €49 (60 replies), Grand €89 (150 replies) or Wedding €129 (unlimited replies), all including VAT. The optional keepsake MP4 film is €9.

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Creating, previewing and sending by link are free up to 7 visible replies. After that, pay once: Essential €14.90 (20 replies), Complete €49 (60 replies), Grand €89 (150 replies) or Wedding €129 (unlimited replies), all including VAT. The optional keepsake MP4 film is €9.

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Frequently asked questions

How early should I send hen or stag invitations?

Two to three months ahead for a weekend away, one month for a night out.

How do I handle costs?

State an estimate and a deadline in the invitation, and let people opt out early.

Can the invitation be a surprise?

Yes. Send it to guests only, and ask them to keep it secret.

See also

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